Redefining Life-Long Love
COUPLE THERAPY
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About Tamar
Tamar is aware of the unique complexity of every relationship and how important it is to tend it with the utmost care and respect to personal boundaries and needs. She is passionate about supporting couples to re-discover their connection as a source of energy that nourishes & heals not only them, but also their family as a whole.
Tamar steadfastly believes that it is possible for couples to become self-actualised individuals whilst remaining in long-term, healthy, intimate relationship with one another.
She is a highly qualified Clinical Counsellor and Psychotherapist with extensive credentials and specialised expertise. She holds a Master of Counselling and Psychotherapy (MCounsPT). Level 4 member of the Australian Counselling Association (ACA) and registered with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). Practised in Couple Therapy with advanced training in relationship dynamics and communication. Author of “Couple Care for Life-Long Love,” a forthcoming guide to nurturing thriving relationships.
COUPLE THERAPY
You may be at a crossroad right now, or you might just be curious and open to explore new avenues for working through a situation that may feel doomed.
I’m here to be a bridge between your current set roles and the true mature nature of your connection. I’m here to give you tools which will step your connection into a new dimension of pleasure and trust.
I’m here to open the door for you to discover the sacred core of your connection and the fundamental reason and way you can serve each other’s healing and wellbeing.
coUPLE CARE: THE BOOK – Coming soon
After over three decades of marriage and thousands of hours of counselling couples, I have learned that not only is it possible for both partners to meet their fullest potential, but that often they need each other in order to do so. While not all relationships should go on forever at any cost, most couples don’t have to settle for less than a high functioning, satisfying life together.
I have seen how couples who are open to giving their relationship the care and attention they would readily give any other aspect of their lives, achieve a framework in which they can maintain their communication, friendship system and intimacy for a long life of love. Relationship woes are not always a dead end; they are an opportunity and a demand to be honest about what’s not working and what we truly want. While couples used to seek help only when their relationship issues were highly problematic, younger couples are showing up in my clinic wanting to confront these issues before they become acute. More people are seeking couple therapy than ever before.
This book draws on real life scenarios to provide a window to the much-needed conversations and re-negotiations couples are having today. It outlines what this type of work can look like. It addresses power dynamics, boundaries, emotional triggers and discrepancies in needs, as well as covering topics on sexual intimacy, financial stresses, parenting and labour distribution. It does not offer a quick fix; it is process oriented, yet simple in its nature. It invites those willing to challenge the familiar, to open themselves to a life-long-love relationship which will support their personal growth and wellbeing.
Thank you to Tamar Ben-Hur — you truly are a beacon of light for couples navigating the journey of relationships in modern times. Your profound and sometimes radical insights and gentle spiritual perspectives have been a gift for me and have significantly influenced this book on postnatal recovery that covers so much more than just physical well-being.
— Dr. Oscar Serrallach
Author of Postnatal Depletion Cure