by Tamar Ben-hur | Dec 12, 2020 | Gender Roles, Relationships
When I see a new couple, I’m not really looking at whether the story they are telling me is true or false. What I am really looking for, is to uncover the true reason behind their thoughts, emotions and feelings towards their partner. I make a commitment to uncover...
by Tamar Ben-hur | Aug 15, 2020 | Relationships
These days, I have been reckoning with my sadness often. A headache that lingered for over four days kept on pulling me back into the chambers of my pain, my loss, my fear. This morning when I looked out the window and saw the range of greenery surrounding me and I...
by Tamar Ben-hur | Jul 17, 2020 | Relationships
While I was in Athens, my husband had to return to Australia unexpectedly, a week before me. I was almost ashamed at the level of joy I experienced just by having the space apart from him. My daughter suddenly became ill, meaning that she was unable to travel, hence I...
by Tamar Ben-hur | Mar 13, 2020 | Gender Roles
“I feel as if COVID-19 sent me back to the ’50s into the traditional gender roles I never signed up for. I feel resentful, angry, suffocated and defeated. It’s making me bitter”, my client said. She was the third client this week, who expressed this fury. It forced me...
by Tamar Ben-hur | Feb 13, 2020 | Relationships
I believe that each and every one of us is meant to find the sweet spot where being appreciated and being connected meet. This is true to all relationships, not only between people but between countries as well. The 21st century paradigm shift has to be from ME to US....
